When I twisted my ankle back in 2008, I remember how a whole new world opened up to me right where I had been living for a number of years. On the one hand, I saw just how selfish, self-centered, and unaware people were, as they would rush by me and ignore the fact that I couldn’t get through doors, or wouldn’t get up to let me sit in the bus or the train. On the other hand, I also saw amazing and inspiring displays of good cheer and selflessness—free rides, letting me pass in front of a long line, and rearranging the seating in a food court so that I could take the table on the side where I could stretch my leg out comfortably.
One of the things that I have always struggled with, that I struggled with during that time dealing with life with a twisted ankle, and that I continue to deal with is the choice to see the world either as half full, or half empty, of goodness. Let’s be honest: there is a lot that is going wrong in the world, and a lot that needs some serious fixing, if not outright replacement. But on the other hand, there is so much that is going right in the world, so much goodness that we can build on and create a better world.
It’s all the more important today, with some of the things that have happened since I first posted these Chronicles of a Twisted Ankle, to remain optimistic. It doesn’t mean burying one’s head in the sand. Rather, it means looking at the reality that surrounds us, but never forgetting that there are more than enough good things happening in the world that we can build on.
{ Sahar’s Blog is all about being in a constant state of learning. So it only made sense for me to go back to all my previous posts and see how my thoughts on certain topics have changed over the last nine years. In this new, ongoing series of posts, I’ll be rereading some of my older posts and reflecting on the same topic in light of what I’ve learned since then. It’s going to be very interesting to see how things have changed! }
I’m really interested to hear how your thinking or thoughts have changed since the original posts.
I think it’s important how you raised the point about looking for the good but not burying your head in the sand! You have to still have the balance of awareness but appreciation of the positive.